Anger to Peace through NLP

Anger to Peace through NLP

From last few months I have been attending discussions on NLP i.e. Neurological Linguistic Programme.
I recently got married and my work pressure increased. I was doing job as well as the household work. Because of the work pressure, to release the stress I developed a tendency of getting angry on small small things and yell..
I realized after a while that this practice of getting angry every now and then is really not helping me. It does re-leave me of my stress for a short while but it hurts the people around me and the reason for which I get angry hardly improves.
I discussed this problem in our NLP group. Our sir Mr. Vikas Dixit told me that usually we chose a pathway to react to certain things. We probably chose it from the things we observe in our surroundings. It may not be always right and if we feel so we can change this pathway. We have to do this on sunconscious level.

He took a exercise "Stub Toe"
He asked me if I can remember the last incident when I had got angry? I said "Yes" and the moment I remembered it I was able to feel the anger raising in my head, it was little hot in my ears, my breath speed was increased..
Sir said thats ok... close your eyes.. now we will go 10 years in future... will you still be angry about that incident... I said "no"
He further said now we will travel back to that incident, you may start feeling little bit of anger... and now we will go to past when this incident had not happened.. you were not angry that time.. I said "Yes"
He told me to open the eyes. We repeated this backward journey from future to incident to past 3 times.
Surprisingly after that when I again remembered the incident the anger that I felt was very very less.
Sir told me "We did this to erase the pathway that you had been using till now"

He asked me what will be the ideal behavior to react in this situation. I said "may be I can sit down and talk to that person nicely about the things that are bothering me, I can smile" Sir said Very good!!
Now close your eyes and see that you are reacting to that incident in the ideal way you just described. I visualised it and then opened my eyes.
Sir told me to repeat this 3 times and then in fast forward for 20 times. At the end he appreciated me by saying you are doing very good. Then distracted me with a trivial question like "what is today's date" to break my trance.
Then again he asked me to remember that incident, to my surprise I was not at all angry!! :) After going home I did this exercise for all the small small things that were bothering meand changed my pathway to react to them.
To my surprise though the situations that were bothering me were as it is, I was much more peaceful and was reacting to it in a very calm way. I talked to the concerned people very nicely and with calm attitude with a smile and now bothering situations are improving too!! :) :)
I am so happy that we are able to change our neural pathways in this way. Same exercise can be used for all the negetive emotions like Pain, Fear, depression Etc.
I took this exercise for my mother in law about pain... more about it in next blog!! :) :)

Beautiful play - "Na yeti uttare"

Saw a beautiful play yesterday! "Na yeti uttare" It was about 2 guys who were gay n their relationship... Tyancha nata etka sundar fulawla hota! :)

Sexual preferance wegla asna, tyamule barobarichya etar mulanpasoon wegla padna, tyana aslelya mulin baddal chya charchanmadhe swatahala interest na watna... apan ase ka? aplyala asa ka watat nahi ha prashna padlela astanach.. apan kase ahot.. aplyala nakki kay watta ya prashnacha uttar ek diwas achanak pane sapadta "Ashutosh" la! Aplya attebhawa baddal aplyala akarshan wattay he kalta tyala... Jenva bhau khodun khodun wicharto tenva to sagala mokalepanane kabul karto aplyala samjun ghetla jail ya bhawanene... Pan mothya bhawacha chehera kilas, ghruna yani bharun jato n to tyala chhakka mhanun hinawto...

Ya saglya prasangatun gelela Ashu swatahwarch chidlela, swatah ase ahot he kallela pan he yogya ki ayogya ya prashnat adaklela... mhanun ekta ekta rahnara...


Ya ulat Ranjeet... mast mokla... ekdum pleasant..

Lahanpani mothya bhawane kelelya abuse madhun swatah chi hi olakh tyala kalte.... Apan he ase ahot he to accept karto.. swatahla swikarto mhanun ch etka mokla watto... pan tyachya gharchyana, babana he patat nahi samjun gheta yet nahi... mhanun to gharatun baher padto.. mala yach standard ne jagta yeil etke paise mala kayam dyayche he promise baba n kadun gheunch!

Mast mokla Ranjeet.. swatahchyach wishwat ramnara, jagnara.. Tarihi baherchya jagashi hi nata thewun asnara... Ashu sarkha ekta nahi..


Ashu Ranjeet shi bolto.. mokla hoto... Its completely natural.. n its ur personal life personal choice... yat yogya ayogya asa kahich nahie... pan tula jar he watat asel n tarihi tu te talnar aslas tar te matra ayogya ahe! 1st accept urself it will gv u the strength to neglect the world... Ha wishwas Ranjeet tyala deto..


Sexuality n gender yat kayam honari gallat.. yala Ranjeet hasto...

Sex is easily available.. pan manus mhanun mazi ji garaj ahe tyacha kay? Relationship cha kay? asa hi prashna Ranjeet wicharto..

Ashu swatahala sweekarto.... Naveench ashu cha janm hoto... mokala, hasara, anandi ashu... Ranjeet tyala sangto ata tuzi najar badalliy tula jag hi wegala disel ata...

Nashkatlya ghari gelelya Ashu la sagalech naveen distat... gharchyanahi ha badal notice hoto... n Ashu la wegalech baba bhettat tyachyashi mitra mhanun bolnare baba..... Ashu shi "gayism" ya wishayawar khoop boltat... jagbharat yabaddal zalelya chalwali, hi manasikta ya baddal khoop kahi.... n shewati sangtat ashi mula astat ajubajula tyanchya kade manus mhanun baghayla shik!


Nantar Ranjeet n Ashu aplya 2ghancha nata apaplya ghari sangun taktat... Ranjeet kade junya reaction chich punarawrutti hote... Ashu che baba matra khoop chhan samjun ghetat tyala... pan shewati ek mhantat "Two men can be close but never deeper than the skin.."

Ranjeet chya mothya bhawala Abuse karnarya bhawala mulga hoto.... "Ha rascal mela tari jagat apli ek khun theun janar apan matra asech marnar.." ya wicharane Ranjeet pisalto... n eka prostitute la anun tichyashi sex karaycha prayatn karto... ti jatana tyachyawar thunkun tyala impotant mhanun nighun jate...

Halwya zalelya Ranjeet la chakka Ashu samjawto " Aplyatun kahi umalu shaknar nahi may be.. pan je ahe te khoop sundar ahe n te accept karuyat..." ya note war natak sampata!

Tya halwya zalelya Ranjeet la mala hi ek bolawasa watta " Jagat apli khun mhanun aple genes theun janya peksha aple wichar theun ja.... n tuzya sarkhya etkya moklya, etkya goad, swatahla poorna olakhlelya n sweekarlelya manasa sathi te kahich awghad nahi!" :)

It was a beautiful play! Loved it! :)

Maza natak!

Maza Natak!

Attach maza 1 la natak stage war ala! Sangeet natak! Sangeet swar wibhram! :) The experiance was so beautiful! Parwa 17 may la Mumbai chya Shiwaji Mandir madhe amhi prayog kela!
Acting mhanje kahi kalapurta swatala completely wisrun jana! Apla sagala ayushya, sagla kahi mage theun completely naveen wyakti banana! Poorna mokala banana! :) The experiance was so beautiful! :)
Poorna zokun deun, swatahla wisrun jaun kelela kam is like doing a meditation! :)

So happy! :) :) :)

Ek bhari incident!! :)

A funny incident happened today!!!

These days I am reading a book on "Body Language" by Allaen Pease! Amazing book! It talks about many diffrent body gestures n its interpretations. N when I examined it with my own body language n observed n discussed other's body Language I Confirmed that Yes! this happens. We take that perticular body gesture acc to our emotion!

Usually while saying a lie, after lying person when he is child covers his mouth, as he grows up it turns into more sophisticated gesture to touch lips lightly in teenage, n even at elder age person just touches his nose or nose n eye!

N asa actually hota. me swatah kiti tari wela khota bollya nantar nakala hat lawte!

N manus jenva boltana hatachi ghadi, pay cross asa karun bolto at that time to open up zalela nasto n usually swatahchya kharya emotions dakhwat nasto, or khota bolat asto!

N manus jenva khara bolat asto tenva hatachi ghadi naste, to hatache talwe dakhwat asto, kadhi kadhi thoda pudhe zukun bolat asto asha weli to manus swatahchya kharya emotions dakhwat asto n khoop open up houn bolat asto!

Tar aj kay zala me yet hote FC rd warun tar ek aplya wayacha mulga n ek bai hote, tar te mhanat hote ki " Amhala parbhani la jaychay tar (kahitari prblm sangitla) amchya kadche paise samplet tar amhala pls madat kara" tar somehow mala asa gut feeling yet hota ki te khota bolat ahet.. so me pudhe gele.. pan natar watla te khara bolat astil tar? apan madat keli pahije... parat jaun tyancha bolna aikla, tarihi asach gut feeling yet hota ki te khota bolat ahet... mag me maza kam karun ale tari te tithech hote.. ya weli me tyanchi body langauge detail madhe observe karaychi tharawli..

I went to them n asked them ki " Parabhani la kase janar ahat n kiti paise lagataet?" to mulga sangayla lagla "kahitari passenger gadi ahe, 150 Rs lagtat, aai cha problem ahe mhanun nahitar swatach 2 diwas kam kela asta n paise milawle aste wagaire wagaire...." N this whole time tyane n tyachya aaine hatachi ghadi ghatleli hoti... gayawaya kartanahi tyane ekdahi hat mokale sodun hatacha talwa dakhawla nahi.... n bolun zalyawar hat sodale n nakala hat lawta lawta dola cholla!
Mag tar mazi khatri zali! ha khotach boltoy! :) n maza gut feeling barobar ahe! n me shantapane mokalya manane ghari ale! nahitar nustya gut feeling war ghari ale aste tar kadachit khat rahyla asta ki apan madat karayla hawi hoti!! :) :) :)

pan khoop wela aplyala asa gut feeling yeta bagh ki ha manus khota boltoy pan mag apan confuse hoto madat karawi ki karu naye n confuse houn basto! Pan he gut feeling astach barobar n upjat ji body langauge apan waprat asto n nakalat apla jo abhyas asto body langauge cha tyatun he gut feeling develop hota. pan asa ka watta he exacly nahi sangta yet! Pan ata he book wachlya mule he sagala neet mahit zala n waparta hi ala!! :)

This book is so great! It helped me so well! It is so amazing n perfect!!! bhari watla mala aj!!! Khoop sari body gestures dili ahet!! Amazing book!!!!!! :) :) :) :)

A visit to an Orphanage!...

Love is giving! Today we all from our animation class, we went to an orphanage to celebrate 1st day of the year. Child - A purest form of Human being! It was so beautiful out there! Lot of small kids, lot of energy, lot of happiness! :)

We distributed drawing books amongst the children, gave them pencils and colors and we told them to draw whatever they like!
Sagale manasokt chitra kadhnyat ramoon gele hote. Tyatle je chhote hote tyna amhi chitra kadhayla madat karat hoto. Amchya sagalya bajuni ti chhoti chhoti mula "Tai he bagha!" "Tai he kasa kadhaycha?" ashi chiwchiwat hoti!

It was beautiful! Pratyek chitra sundar hota! Pratyek chitra jiwant hota, khara hota, manapasoon kadhlela hota! Sagale jana ek ek karun wahya anun dakhwat hoti! Apan utsahane tya mulachi wahi hatat gheun tyacha te chitra baghun "Are wa!" mhanaycha awkash! Kay to anand fulat hota pratyek cheheryawar!! :)

Sarwat shewati ya saglya sundar chitranmadhun 1st, 2nd , 3rd no kadhnar hote.... Manapasoon watat hota nako, nako atta pasoon hi competition. Ya chitra kadhnyatla bharbharun mokala anand tyana gheu dya, ya jagnyat bharbharun rahylela mokala anand tyana gheu dya n he ayushya hi asach muktapane, mokalepani bharbharun jagayla shiku dyat!

Ya sperdhemule uchha nichta ugachach nirman hote! He na karta sadha appreciation kela tar apoap aplya shejarchyach chitra aplyapeksha chhan alay he baghun mula apoap shiktat. Hi spardha matra ya nikhal, sundar shiknyala ek rat race karun takate, jyat pratyek jan dhawat asto......!

Price distribution suru honyachya adhich tithun nighale karan mala thodya welapoorwi anandane fulalele chehere hirmusle hotana baghayche navate....
Jatana arthat ya goad mulansathi apan swatah kamawlelya paishatla kahi bhag dila, ha anand tar hotach n tyachbarobar hi "spardha nako!" he sirana thham pane sangaycha khambir wichar hi!!! :)

3 Idiots!

An amazing movie, n jo thought tyana mandaycha ahe goes in ompleat accordance with my own thoughts! Try to become a capable person and success will come after you! That is life! Being successful is not life, success is just the sweet fruit that u get along with it!
Tasa mhantala tar geetech tatvadyan! Karma kara falachi apeksha theu naka! Fal apoap magun yetach!
Take the decisions and do the things that willl make you grow, to become a good person, a capable person! Everything else will follow!
Hardest part comes when we have to apply all this in our real life! But it is not always hard! It is hard if you say it is hard! It's easy if you say its easy!
Ayushya tasach milata or ghadata jasa apan tyala ghadawto! Matra tyala ghadwawa lagta, apoap hoil asa mhantala, jamala tar karto/ karte asa mhantala tar hawa tasa te kadhich ghadat nahi!
Ajun ek thought cinema peksha thoda wegla, manus wait nasto, manus chukicha nasto, chuktat tya tyachya kruti! Tasach manus bhari nasto, bhari astat tya tyachya kruti, to je wagto te! Pan arthat kasa wagaycha he mansanech tharawlela asta!
So it is always important to choose correctly! And it is easy if your brain is alert and you dont fall under emotional pressures! :)

AVATAAR!!

Avtaar!!! Beautiful movie!!

About being a free spirit. To belive in yourself and doing what you feel is right! Fight against greedyness. fight against swarthi prawrutti! To love mother nature! Understand the langauge of every living being. N fight against the ppl who want to destroy. To fight against ppl who wants to deny this freeness of every living being.

To know this body doesnt matter, what matters that is inside you! Your soul! Be true to yourself n your soul!
Beautiful movie!!

AVATAAR!!!!!!!!!!

My best way to live!! :)

Best way to live life is to be free! swatahchya manala mokala sodana! pan he mokala sodanya adhi aplya manatla swatahla toknara n tu karteyes te nakki barobar ahe ka he wicharnara jaga zalela asayla hawa! Nahitar ayushya wedya sarkha wahawat jata!
Mala asa watta pratyekane mala he asa jagaychay asha prakare swatahsathi kahi akhun ghyawa which suits you best! About me, me kahi goshti akhun ghetlya ahet n mala asa watta ki it is univarsally best way to live life.
Pratyek mansane swatantra rahayla hawa n te swatantra milnyasathi sarwat jast garaj aste ti swatahchi jababdari poorna pane swatah uchalnyachi! kuthlya hi babtit tumhi konawar awlamboon rahylat ki tumcha swatantra sampla!
By jababdari I mean 1) Sharirik jababdari - apla sharir he ek madhyam ahe jya dware ya jagat apla existance janawto. So sundar ayushya jagnya sathi its important to keep yourself fit always! so hi zali sharirik jababdari.
2) Manasaik jababdari - Aple sagale anand, sagali dukkha, sagalya bhawana ya aplyach hatat astat n apanch tya odhwun ghetlelya astat. Mhanunch apan anandi rahaycha, ayushya bharbharun jagaycha tharawala tar nishchit jagu shakto. Pratyek, agdi kiti hi motha problem ala tari to solve karaychi takad aplyat aste. Pan tya sathi doka talyawar hawa ani ha attitude maintain karayla hawa. Hi zali manasik jababdari! N hi manasik jababdari ghyaychi takad yete ti apan karat aslelya, swatahsathi choose kelelya kamatun. Your work can give you everything in your life that you want!
3) Arthik jababdari - this is not applicable to kids who r still studying, but eka certain wayanantar atleast swatahchi tari poorna arthik jababdari aplyala uchalta yayla hawi. Swatahche chhote mothe kharch, n lahan asa wa mothe gharatlya apan uchalu shaku ashya jababdarya apan uchallyach pahijet.

Ya 3 goshti karaychya jar pratyek mansane tharawlya tar tya pratyek mansacha ayushya n paryayane sagala jag atyant sundar houn jail!
Aplyala usually yenare problems yach 3 goshtinshi sambandhit astat n mansane tharawla tar nishchit asa wagta yeta!
I can tell this because I am doing it myself! :) It feels so strong! N ashya weli swatah madhye prachand takad yete. Chukichya, patat naslelya goshtila thampane nahi mhananyachi, ajubajuche sagale loka ti chukichi goshta karat asle tari nahi mhanaychi, bharbharun swatah war, etaranwar n ya ayushyawar prem karaychi takad yatun yete!
It feels so great! so confident! so amazing!!! :) :) :)

Sheroo!

Sheroo! Maza ladka weda kutra!

Majorda tar etka ki ekhadya mansala pan mage takel!

khanya pinyache bhayanak nakhare! Kami bhajleli poli khanar nahi! Soyabean chi poli khanar nahi! karapleli poli khanar nahi!

Ladi godi lawun swatahcha kam karun ghenyat ekdum hushar!

Pan premal hi titkach! Ajoba gele tenva mahina bhar satat tyanchya cot khali basun asaycha...!

Maza goad weda kutra! :)

An amazing trip to Dapoli!!

Attach 2 diwsanpoorwi aai baba n barobar Dapoli chi mast trip karun ale! Etki sundar trip hoti ki pratyek kshan warnan karnya sarkha ahe!
Jatanachya rastya war sagali kade hirwe gar galiche pasarle hote! mast sundar sundar kowala kowala gawat! lolayla bolawnara! :)
n jabhalya rangachi jithe tithe phulani bharleli teradyachi zada! :) n tyachya jawalach konti tari piwali piwali phula pan hoti! :) te jambhala piwala combination etka kahi sundar disat hota! :)
Ek hirwagar pan melela sap pan pahyla! :P

Kaka chya farm house samor ek wihir hoti n tyala mast rahat hota chitratlya sarkha! n patryachi badali! :) durmil na! :) me khoop wela pani kadhun baghitla! tya madhe beduk, mase sarwa kahi hota! tari pan sagale sangat hote mala te pani khoop swatchha ahe mhanun! :) n pit hi hoto amhi te pani!

khalti eka kutri 3 chhoti chhoti pilla dili hoti! etki goad hoti ti! :)

Sakali sakali mast chaha cha cup gheun chaha pit pit me ektich aju bajula hindun ale! motthe motthe zadana lataklele koli! anek wegweglya prakarchi phula, khoop sare wegweglya prakarche kide! :) n lal lal mati ! n mazya hatatla to mast chaha! :)

Tikade ek bhari ajji bhetlya! 75 warsha chya tya ajji bhali motthi lakadachi moli 2 Km wahun neun wikaychya! n mag ice cream khaychya! :) What a spirit! :) tyana mhantla " ajji damat nahi ka tumhi?" tar mhanlya " kasa kay? Ice cream khate na! " :) :) :) :) :) I loved her so much! :)

Kaka cha bhla mottha shet pan pahyla! Chibud nawacha ek wichitra nawacha phal khalla! tyachya gara peksha biyanach jast chaw hoti! :)

Tikde bauxite cha ore asnare chamakdar kale dagad pan pahyle! :)

Mazya barobar 3 couples rather 2 aai baba n 4 kaka kaku hote! sagale milun khoop sare theatre games khello!

Parat yetana dhag etke sundar disat hote! poorna khali utarlele! It was so amazing!! :) :) :)

Overall it was so amazing! Fakt camera tewdha navta barobar! pan ata parat 1da jaun ti univ hi bharun kadhen! :) :) :)

Maintaining a Relationship

Starting a relationship is very easy, but maintaining it is difficult many a times. Most important thing is that you should be able to enjoy to the fullest with your partner. Talks, discussions, other hobbies everything. This is the most important aspect. After that understanding and caring for other person becomes very important. Reducing your ego and selfishness is other important factor.

Many a times when this doesn't happen, problems occur. Then you originally enjoy with your partner but due to other problems you start fighting even when you meet. All problems could stop instantly if you try to consider and understand your partner's side. After doing this that is solving the problems it is very important to spend some nice quality time with your partner, if not possible face to face at least on phone, internet etc.

Things could repair like magic if you keep maintaining your relationship this way!

Love makes everything easy!

Many a times in our day today life situations comes such that we get very irritated and angry even with our close ones. Many a times solution is very simple but due to our selfishness and ego we don't see that solution. If we just keep our head cool and think from the point of view of other person, situation can be handled very easily.
Infact aplya jawalchya mansachya bajune wichar kela tar aplyala rag hi yet nahi, situation khoop uttam handle kelyamule, na bhandly mule, jawalchya mansala sambhallya mule samadhan milta te weglach! It is very much easier than being selfish, being angry and being lonely!
Love does makes things easier, when we want to take care! Not for your own sake but for the other person's sake!

Rains.....

Finally Rain has started! It is so beautiful out there everywhere!

Hirwya gar panancha pawsat bhijnara gulmohar ani tya warchi lal chutuk phula! :)

Thandit bhijun kudkudnara manjaracha chhotasa pillu! Tyala kushit gheun ghari anaycha ani kapdane pusun tyala garam garam dudh pajaycha! :)

Ole kanch raste, tyawarun dhawnarya gadya ani tyancha tya olya rastywar padnara pratibimb! :)

Musaldhar paus baghat khidkit basleli me ani barobar garam garam coffee! :)

Ani ya saglya barobar poorna concentration ani manapasun karta yenara maza kam! Pranayam, Acting riyaz, Shreeram Lagu n cha Laman ani maza abhyas! :)

I am loving all this so much!!!!!! :) :) :)

Taking up the career as Actress!

Taking up the career of actress had been a very big and important decision in my life! It teach ed me a lot of things! Leaving your home and going to mumbai alone, try to live there alone was the most difficult part! First time in life I realised How much I love my parents and how much they love me! Adjusting with new people, handle the money problems, handle the weird land lady... it all took test of my patience! But finally things are smooth!

So I am having new questions rising in my head! Working in serials what does it give me? It gives me chance to act! I am seen on TV! But it always gives a regret that what am I showing it to people? I am not giving anything good to them! Not a message, not even proper enjoyment! Actually this is my point of view but regular serial watchers do enjoy there serials a lot!

One more interesting fact is that there is lot of difference in Serial acting, Movie acting and Acting in a play! What acting gives me? It gives me to live MORE!!... In plays I get this to the fullest!.. In movie it is comparatively less and in serials it is least!.... Anyways thinking is still going on.. Will write more soon!

Doing Hard Work

Doing hard work is the most difficult thing to do! 1st of all it comes as a binding on you, 2 nd of all it is usually boring (without considering which type of hard work it is). Even if its your hobby you need to do hard work to reach at highest point in your hobby! That's what makes it boring! It tastes your paitence
But there are certain ways to make your hard work interesting!
1) Do not consider you are doing this so as to go to some highest point. Just try enjoying the process!
2) This is completely opposite of the first, keep the goal in your mind and keep yourself motivated to do it!
3) Third is just decide that you need to increase your Patience and this is the only way to increase it!
Which way could work for you rightly no one can tell... You just have to see it yourself! :) :) :)

Relationship..

The most important thing about yourself is being happy and satisfied with what you do! You can stay happy if you decide to, just by accepting whatever comes your way. But you can remain satisfied only, when you work hard and try to get whatever you want to get. You may or may not get whatever you want but taking those efforts is essensial that keeps you satisfied!
Only a satisfied and happy person can maintain a good and understanding relationship. Being independant even if you are in a relationship is very important. This is a very difficult task because when you see a support you tend to take it and become dependant. And this dependancy does not give you happiness and satisfaction about yourself it just gives you a temporary relif. Take care of your partner but do not expect anything in return which is a very very difficult task too!
When this "dependancy, not being happy and satisfied with yourself" such problems arise in a relationship, best thing to do is take a small break, Be INDEPENDANT! think over, discuss, find out where you are going wrong and correct your own mistakes.

Relationships...

Relationship..

From a long time I had always been thinking what does it take for a relationship to go smooth... It feels like now I have found the answer, It is only lots n lots of love for your partnerthat make relationship smooth and also understanding of each other. We love our parents a lot.. They love us a lot more than we do and many a times we dont come to know about that unless we get parted from that them. What is the main thing about the relationship with our parents.. its only "LOVE without any expectations, and even if any expectations are there they are for the good of child.

Therefore for any relationship to go smooth and nice the important factor which needs to be there is "Love and Respect" for each otherwithout any extraordinary expectations. If these 2 things are there nothing else is required...and then Material success of the individuals do not matter at all!!!

What a pity! ridicule of "tare zameen par" ="Bechare Jameen par"

Yesterday on 'M' TV I saw 1 pathetic thing in history of TV. It was ridicule of beautiful movie " Tare Zameen Par". I just don't understand how can someone feels like making a ridicule on such a beautiful movie like this. It is so disgusting. such type of programs should be banned. M TV is also making a ridicule of movie "Chak De". Why people like make such type of ridicules I really don't understand!

Choice of Career!!

How does liking about certain subject or career develops?? First we try to deal with it, if we are able to handle it successfully and able to enjoy it we start liking it. Now a days there is general tendency that people want to take a career which has a good money.

At this point if one chooses a career which is comparatively simple and a kind of job that anyone can do, it may earn less money but it is easy, therefore easy to handle and easy to get success. So chances are more that person doing that job would be happier.

But people tend to measure a person's greatness by how much money he earns. So if one chooses a career which is easier and makes him happy, but earns less money. I think someone like this is great!! Because he is able to do something which will make him happier!!

What do you think??