Maintaining a Relationship

Starting a relationship is very easy, but maintaining it is difficult many a times. Most important thing is that you should be able to enjoy to the fullest with your partner. Talks, discussions, other hobbies everything. This is the most important aspect. After that understanding and caring for other person becomes very important. Reducing your ego and selfishness is other important factor.

Many a times when this doesn't happen, problems occur. Then you originally enjoy with your partner but due to other problems you start fighting even when you meet. All problems could stop instantly if you try to consider and understand your partner's side. After doing this that is solving the problems it is very important to spend some nice quality time with your partner, if not possible face to face at least on phone, internet etc.

Things could repair like magic if you keep maintaining your relationship this way!

Love makes everything easy!

Many a times in our day today life situations comes such that we get very irritated and angry even with our close ones. Many a times solution is very simple but due to our selfishness and ego we don't see that solution. If we just keep our head cool and think from the point of view of other person, situation can be handled very easily.
Infact aplya jawalchya mansachya bajune wichar kela tar aplyala rag hi yet nahi, situation khoop uttam handle kelyamule, na bhandly mule, jawalchya mansala sambhallya mule samadhan milta te weglach! It is very much easier than being selfish, being angry and being lonely!
Love does makes things easier, when we want to take care! Not for your own sake but for the other person's sake!

Rains.....

Finally Rain has started! It is so beautiful out there everywhere!

Hirwya gar panancha pawsat bhijnara gulmohar ani tya warchi lal chutuk phula! :)

Thandit bhijun kudkudnara manjaracha chhotasa pillu! Tyala kushit gheun ghari anaycha ani kapdane pusun tyala garam garam dudh pajaycha! :)

Ole kanch raste, tyawarun dhawnarya gadya ani tyancha tya olya rastywar padnara pratibimb! :)

Musaldhar paus baghat khidkit basleli me ani barobar garam garam coffee! :)

Ani ya saglya barobar poorna concentration ani manapasun karta yenara maza kam! Pranayam, Acting riyaz, Shreeram Lagu n cha Laman ani maza abhyas! :)

I am loving all this so much!!!!!! :) :) :)

Taking up the career as Actress!

Taking up the career of actress had been a very big and important decision in my life! It teach ed me a lot of things! Leaving your home and going to mumbai alone, try to live there alone was the most difficult part! First time in life I realised How much I love my parents and how much they love me! Adjusting with new people, handle the money problems, handle the weird land lady... it all took test of my patience! But finally things are smooth!

So I am having new questions rising in my head! Working in serials what does it give me? It gives me chance to act! I am seen on TV! But it always gives a regret that what am I showing it to people? I am not giving anything good to them! Not a message, not even proper enjoyment! Actually this is my point of view but regular serial watchers do enjoy there serials a lot!

One more interesting fact is that there is lot of difference in Serial acting, Movie acting and Acting in a play! What acting gives me? It gives me to live MORE!!... In plays I get this to the fullest!.. In movie it is comparatively less and in serials it is least!.... Anyways thinking is still going on.. Will write more soon!

Doing Hard Work

Doing hard work is the most difficult thing to do! 1st of all it comes as a binding on you, 2 nd of all it is usually boring (without considering which type of hard work it is). Even if its your hobby you need to do hard work to reach at highest point in your hobby! That's what makes it boring! It tastes your paitence
But there are certain ways to make your hard work interesting!
1) Do not consider you are doing this so as to go to some highest point. Just try enjoying the process!
2) This is completely opposite of the first, keep the goal in your mind and keep yourself motivated to do it!
3) Third is just decide that you need to increase your Patience and this is the only way to increase it!
Which way could work for you rightly no one can tell... You just have to see it yourself! :) :) :)

Relationship..

The most important thing about yourself is being happy and satisfied with what you do! You can stay happy if you decide to, just by accepting whatever comes your way. But you can remain satisfied only, when you work hard and try to get whatever you want to get. You may or may not get whatever you want but taking those efforts is essensial that keeps you satisfied!
Only a satisfied and happy person can maintain a good and understanding relationship. Being independant even if you are in a relationship is very important. This is a very difficult task because when you see a support you tend to take it and become dependant. And this dependancy does not give you happiness and satisfaction about yourself it just gives you a temporary relif. Take care of your partner but do not expect anything in return which is a very very difficult task too!
When this "dependancy, not being happy and satisfied with yourself" such problems arise in a relationship, best thing to do is take a small break, Be INDEPENDANT! think over, discuss, find out where you are going wrong and correct your own mistakes.