Why do people analyse others from the achievements they had made in their life. Why everywhere this success is counted such as academic success, money related success... any kind of success...
Did the people who are unable to shine are useless? or of less importance? What qualities does matter? How is it decided what you feel about the person? Success is definately not a criteria to judge a person..
But the paradox in this is that there is no other criteria by which people can be analysed... When you get to know a new person what you primerily see is his success.. Even the success in impressing you!... When you make certain relationship wih the person what you rather everyone else sees is that "what do I get from this relationship?" This ultimately leads to the person's success , more successful the person is in anything.. more you get from the relationship...
This happen even while analysing yourself. You tend to compare yourself with other people... ultimately with the sccess of other people...
This is a paradox difficult to handle.. we can say 'How successful the other person is does not matter in my relationship with him" But ultimately that is the thing which matters! and when two persons are compared according to their success and when one is called inferior than other even that doesnt sound comfertable specially when one of the person being compared is "YOU" !
This is the paradox!
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
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